
Good Conversation
If I said, “Bekah and me are going out tonight,” what would you think? Would you catch the misplaced pronoun “me”? It should be “Bekah and I.”
On the other hand, if I said, “Someone gave Bekah and I a coupon for the Olive Garden,” would you have caught the problem there? It should be “Bekah and me” in this case. Would you say, “Someone gave I a coupon”? No, you would say, “Someone gave ME a coupon.” Adding another individual to the sentence doesn’t change it.
Unfortunately, whenever someone uses a phrase like this incorrectly, I mentally correct it. I have made the mistake of correcting Bekah at the wrong times, by the way. Not good. So I generally keep my corrections to myself.
But, ultimately, speaking with incorrect words and phrases is not going to send a person to hell. It’s not a matter of salvation to misspeak like this. However, there ARE good and proper ways to speak to one another the word of life.
Acts 14:1 says that Paul and Barnabas “spoke in such a manner that a large number of people believed.” How did they speak? I’d love to know how to speak in such a manner that many of the people around New Orleans would believe!
1. They spoke the WORD.
In the verses immediately preceding and following Acts 14:1 we see the following clues as to their message:
- The whole city assembled to hear the word of the Lord (Acts 13:44)
- It was necessary for the word of God be spoken to you first… (Acts 13:46)
- They began rejoicing and glorifying the word of the Lord (Acts 13:48)
- The word of the Lord was being spread throughout the whole region (Acts 13:49)
- Testifying to the word of His grace (Acts 14:3)

Getting the Message Across
If I want to speak in such a way that many will believe in the Lord, I must speak ONLY the Lord’s message. I must speak ALL the Lord’s message. His word is that which saves (Romans 1:16).
2. They spoke BOLDLY.
- Paul and Barnabas spoke out boldly (Acts 13:46)
- They spent a long time there speaking boldly with reliance upon the Lord (Acts 14:3)
The manner of their speech was important. We must not bring the word of God to the people in a timid fashion.
“Um…I don’t guess you’d like to hear about your soul’s salvation, would you? You wouldn’t like to know about how to have eternal life would you? No? Oh, that’s okay…”
OR
“We preach the good news of the promise made to the fathers, that God has fulfilled this promise to our children in that He raised up Jesus, as it is also written in the second Psalm, ‘You are My Son, today I have begotten You.’” (Acts 13:32-33)
So, how do I “talk right” about Jesus? I must first KNOW the word of God before I can speak it with boldness! Knowing the word is half the battle. Then I must stand with courage and speak with my neighbors.
May God bless us with grace in our speech today,
Nathan



