Yesterday we thought about the question “When do I HAVE to go to worship?”
Today, let’s think about the question: “Is it ever okay to ‘miss church’?”
On the face of it, this seems like the opposite of the first question. It sounds like the person asking has a healthy respect for God’s mandate for us to always be at church…assuming we are using the correct language.
Challenge #1 – Where in the Bible does anyone ever use the phrase “at church”? In the New Testament “church” is not something you GO TO; it is something you ARE. If you are a Christian, you are part of Christ’s church. If you have joined yourself to a group of Christians who work together in an area, you are part of that church. What do we always tell the children? “The church is not the building; it’s the people.” That’s right. See Matthew 18:17; Acts 5:11; and Acts 8:1 as three New Testament references to “church,” and see how the word is used.
Challenge #2 – Where in the Bible does God ever command you be at every assembly of the Christians? The closest you will get is Hebrews 10:25: “…not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near.” Did God say that you have to be at every assembly of the church in order to be saved? No – He said your HABIT should be to assemble with the Saints; and DON’T have the habit of forsaking the assembling of yourselves together. In other words, you should have a habit of being with your brethren when they gather together. Is this “church,” as so many call it? Or is this a general habit of gathering together with Christians no matter where or when? It would certainly include the times when “the whole church” comes together (1 Corinthians 11:18; 14:23).
It would seem to me this question (“Is it ever okay to ‘miss church’?”) is almost of the same mindset of the first question (“When do I HAVE to go to worship?”). Both questions focus on the same thing: “What are God’s specific commands regarding me going to church so that I can figure out exactly how often I HAVE to be there and when it’s okay to miss?” Now, I’m not saying EVERYONE who asks these questions has this mindset, but I think most do. This is the legalistic mindset of checking off the boxes to make sure I’ve done everything to make certain of my salvation. Don’t get me wrong – we ought to work hard to make sure we are doing what is right; but at the end of the day GOD saves us DESPITE ourselves.
Do you really want an answer to this question? Okay, then: “It is never okay to miss our assemblies.” Oh…that’s not what you wanted to hear? Well, good, because that’s not in the Bible, either.
God is not looking for a perfect attendance record. He’s looking for a HEART that loves Him more than anything else. He’s looking for a heart that loves its brother more than it loves itself. He’s looking for individuals who are willing to go out of their busy ways to stop and encourage their brethren. He’s looking for people who are willing to make a habit of working in fellowship with other brethren.
It’s all perspective, isn’t it? Are we looking TOWARD God, or AWAY from Him? That’s what makes your question good or bad.
God bless,
Nathan







